I have experienced this first-hand so I understand the importance of finding someone you can trust to honour your loved one, making sure they are respected in a way that you have known and loved them.
A funeral should be a way for you to have some closure, maybe even learn something new about them and have their truth told. It`s incredibly important you leave with a feeling, that your loved one was truly represented.
Giving someone a good sendoff can bring some solace in the shared experience of your grief, you come together to honour their life and in doing so you support each other.
No request or need is ever too great, I want to help you so I may take some stress of the planning away, I work with you so there are no surprises and no generic scripts said on your loved one`s funeral.