Having a ceremony that can be as small or grand as you wish, will give your family and friends a place to fully take in and understand, why you have to say goodbye to your birth name and why you choose happiness and self love.
Like Mama Ru always says, `If you can`t love yourself, how the hell can you gonna love somebody else?`.
You will always be you and that sometimes has to be said, no one is losing, your family are gaining a member of their family that believes in their own worth and wants to take their place in the world.
I am an ally and I want everyone to get a seat at the table where they are treated as equals.